Author name: Felice Mathieu

Couples should seek marriage counseling when they find themselves stuck in recurring arguments that never reach permanent resolution, or when they lack the knowledge and tools to move past current conflicts. Professional guidance becomes essential when the same issues resurface repeatedly despite sincere efforts to resolve them.

Couples can manage unrealistic expectations by aligning them with God’s design, ensuring fairness to both spouses’ needs, and confirming mutual achievability. The “two becoming one flesh” principle requires surrendering individual agendas for shared goals. Research shows 65% of marital dissatisfaction stems from unmet expectations requiring biblical evaluation and realistic adjustment.

In the Christian tradition, marriage is considered a sacred union between a man and a woman. Effective communication is essential for maintaining a healthy and loving relationship, as it allows spouses to understand each other’s needs and concerns. Failure to communicate properly can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts that can cause emotional pain and distance between spouses. As Christians, we believe that marriage is a reflection of the divine love and commitment between God and his people. To help couples improve their communication skills and strengthen their bond, let’s discuss some practical tips couples can consistently apply to greatly improve the communication in their marriage.